DEALING WITH OFFENSES IN MARRIAGE 

 Introduction

- Marriage is a beautiful union, but it's not immune to conflicts and offenses.

- The Bible teaches us to forgive and love one another, but it's not always easy.

- Today, we'll explore how to deal with offenses in marriage.

1) *The Reality of Offenses in Marriage

A- Offenses will come: "It is inevitable that offenses will come" (Luke 17:1).

B- We're imperfect humans: "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans 3:23).

C- Marriage magnifies our imperfections.

2) *The Danger of Unforgiven

1- Unforgiven leads to bitterness: "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many" (Hebrews 12:15).

2- Unforgiveness destroys relationships: "Unforgiveness is like a poison that slowly destroys the relationship".

3) *Biblical Principles for Dealing with Offenses* 

1. Forgive Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors" (Matthew 6:12).

2. Let go "Let go of the offense and don't dwell on it" (Philippians 3:13-14).

3. Communicate "Communicate openly and honestly with your spouse" (Ephesians 4:25-26).

4. *Seek reconciliation*: "Seek reconciliation and restoration in your relationship" (Matthew 5:23-24).

5. Pray Pray for your spouse and your relationship" (Ephesians 6:18).

4) *Practical Steps for Dealing with Offenses* 

1. *Take a break*: "Take a break from the situation to calm down and reflect".

2. *Identify the issue Identify the root cause of the offense

3. *Use 'I' statements*: "Use 'I' statements to express your feelings and avoid blame".

4. Listen actively Listen actively to your spouse's perspective".

5. Seek counseling Seek counseling or mentorship if needed".

5) Conclusion

1- Dealing with offenses in marriage requires forgiveness, communication, and a willingness to seek reconciliation.

2- Remember that marriage is a journey, and conflicts will arise.

3- But with God's help and guidance, we can navigate these challenges and build a stronger, more loving relationship.

Final Thoughts

- "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4).

- "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32).

BY APOSTLE DR. MICHAEL OPOKU AMOAKO 

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