DEALING WITH VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE 

 "According to the World Health Organization (WHO), 1 in 3 women worldwide have experienced physical or sexual violence in their lifetime."

-Today, we want to break the silence surrounding violence in marriage and explore biblical guidance on how to deal with it."

The Reality of Violence in Marriage

- Define violence: "Physical, emotional, or verbal abuse that can cause harm or fear."

- Discuss the prevalence of violence in marriage, highlighting that it can happen in any community, regardless of socioeconomic status or education level.

- Emphasize that violence is never acceptable and is not a sign of love or strength.

Biblical Guidance

- Explore biblical teachings on marriage, highlighting the importance of mutual respect, love, and submission (Ephesians 5:21-33, 1 Peter 3:1-7).

- Discuss the biblical concept of "helpmate" (Genesis 2:18), emphasizing that marriage is a partnership, not a hierarchy.

- Address the issue of headship and submission, clarifying that these concepts do not justify or condone violence.

Signs of Violence in Marriage

- Identify common signs of violence, including:

    - Physical abuse (hitting, pushing, etc.)

    - Emotional abuse (belittling, controlling, etc.)

    - Verbal abuse (yelling, name-calling, etc.)

    - Financial abuse (withholding resources, etc.)

    - Isolation (limiting contact with friends, family, etc.)

What to Do If You're Experiencing Violence

- Encourage victims to:

    - Seek help immediately (call a hotline, reach out to a trusted friend or family member, etc.)

    - Create a safety plan (identify safe places to stay, have a backup plan, etc.)

    - Document incidents (keep a record of dates, times, and details of abuse)

    - Seek counseling or therapy

- Emphasize the importance of prioritizing safety and well-being.

What to Do If You're Perpetrating Violence

- Encourage perpetrators to:

    - Acknowledge their actions and take responsibility

    - Seek counseling or therapy to address underlying issues

    - Make amends and work towards healing and restoration

- Emphasize that true repentance requires a willingness to change and work towards healing.

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